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This essay originally appeared in the October, 2009 issue of Adult Video News. Reprinted with Permission.
Joani Blank broke a mold in the adult toy industry 32 years ago when she created Good Vibrations as a place for women to...
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After taking thousands of pictures around the globe with my trusty Pentax, I bought a digital camera last week.
If you already have one, this may sound pretty ho-hum. But to someone who spends hundreds of dollars on film every time he leaves...
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I want you back, says Belle de Jour’s lover | News –
Generation B – Anything He Can Do, She Can Do | NYTimes.com – IN September 1998, David Buechner, then 39, a prominent classical pianist, came out as a transgender woman, explaining that from...
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Text Scarleteen | Scarleteen – To ask Scarleteen a question via text, just text 66746 and start your question with the keyword ASKST.
it’s not rope: couture Shibari in Exit Magazine | violet blue ® :: open source sex –
Film Festival Secrets:...
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Having discussed sex and language and the relationship between the two last week, I had been planning on writing about a totally different topic this week. However, after reading the thought-provoking comments left below the article (thank you to...
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High Schools Struggle When Gender Bends the Dress Code – NYTimes.com – Dress is always code, particularly for teenagers eager to telegraph evolving identities. Each year, schools hope to quell disruption by prohibiting the latest styles that...
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Sunday, November 8, 2009 - 2:00pm By Thumper
There is nothing wrong with you. I will, however, disagree with your statement that you don’t have a sexually abused past. Reason being: we all have. Sometimes sexual abuse can come in the most horrific forms of violence, while more generally...
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The lineup of speakers was extraordinary: a Senator; senior executives from companies like Verizon and Comcast; several state Attorneys General; President Obama’s Deputy Chief Technology Officer; and dozens of heavy hitters like Adam Thierer (...
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Looking for sympathy, I recently wanted to tell my partner that I had a small itch on my outer labia (don't worry, nothing majora). Half-way through my complaint, though, I had to stop abruptly, because I didn't know what words to use to describe...
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November 1, 20097:30 PMto10:30 PM
Where: Collect Pond, 45 Berry Street, corner of N 11th St, Brooklyn (Google Maps: http://bit.ly/derivtheat)
Cost: Pay what you can, suggested donation $15 includes snacks
Presented by Derivative Theater Company...
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“I feel...noticed by my lover. Feel his present [sic]. I communicate seldom in speaking words. I communicate in minds and with touchings. Touchings at special hot spots... I feel a short flash of energie [sic] during the touching. If I´m...
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I’m reading and really enjoying the second book by S. Bear Bergman, The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You (Arsenal Pulp Press). It’s a collection of essays about gender and identity. I think we first met when ze taught at Dark Odyssey a few years ago...
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These are my links for October 25th through October 26th:
Scary Sex Toys – Sex Toys That Are More Scary Than Sexy | Cory Silverberg – the sex toys below are ghoulish not just in their looks, but in misguided conception, poor design, and sometimes...
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Today starts WRAP Week: White Ribbons Against Pornography.
Sponsored by groups including Concerned Women for America (CWA) and Morality in Media (MIM), the goal of the week is “to educate the public about the extent of the pornography problem...
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A couple I’d seen in sex therapy for a month quit last night. I can’t say I blame them. And I admit I was a bit relieved.
They’re in their late forties, attractive and youngish. Here’s what I learned about them in four...